He approves.

When you are a medium people just tend to find you, everywhere you go, those people might be living or not.  Once at a very posh spa while getting a facial, I suddenly began feeling melancholy and sick to my stomach all at the same time.  It turns out, I was channeling the estheticians mom who had crossed over the year earlier with cancer.  My facial was supposed to be my down time, but this woman's mom knew I might be the closest avenue to talking with her daughter, and she definitely took the on ramp. 

I channelled, she cried and neither one of us will likely forget that sunday when she came in on her normal day off, at a time that she normally did not work at, and ended up with me on her spa table.  It's the way things work around me.  Today a similar thing happened.  I had promised a couple of hairstylist readings the next time I was in getting my highlights darkened.  So, as I was in the chair, I was reading away for the girls.  

I am so used to doing my thing, whenever, wherever, it's no big deal to me.  What is and has always been a big deal is the way spirit is able to bring messages across to my clients.  So, there I am reading for this woman, and her dad is talking to me.  He didn't immediately come through, he was reserved and waited until the very end to talk to her.  He showed me how he crossed, described himself to me, and then he did a very peculiar thing.  He showed me a dollar bill and pointed at the pyramid.  

I asked her every possible question about pyramids that I could think of...no, no, no.  Nothing rang a bell for her about pyramids.  They were obviously not Egyptian, neither of us could see the connection.  So, I said, well - you know just pay attention if someone mentions a pyramid to you.  I don't know what it means.  We were both okay with leaving the message at that.  BUT, her dad was insistent on pointing to this dollar bill with the pyramid...

You know messages from the other side is charades sometimes.  I am not all knowing, and have no idea sometimes what they are trying to make me understand, or to convey to my clients.  Often, time and sleeping on it are the only remedy to figure out what they were trying to get me to understand.  

It is frustrating to me to not get what they have traveled so far to say to my clients, so I kept thinking, and asked both women - what does that pyramid symbol mean? Finally, I get out a dollar bill so we can further inspect what her dad might be pointing out to her.  My hairdresser had finished her thing on my hair, and I was under a cap cooking.  She whips out her laptop and types in the lettering around the pyramid symbol and God bless google...the pyramid name literally means "He approves."

I would never have known that had she not googled it,  and my clients eyes really said everything.  I asked her if her dad was a non verbal guy...yes.  Did he never voice his feelings..no.  And, she mentioned that he was a farmer who carried the farmers almanac with him.  He lived by it.  Well, the farmers almanac is full of symbolic meanings, it is the oldest metaphysical, not so new thing, being printed.  It obviously was easier for her dad to show his emotions for her by a symbol than actions.  HE knew what the pyramid meant, we just had to figure it out!  

We struck a bargain.  I gave her the dollar that we used today, and she let me use the symbol in my readings...that's a good bargain.  She is going to frame her dad's dollar.  We need to remember, things are not always what they seem in this world.  Dig deeper - that pyramid you see in front of you may be much more than just three sides.  

Spirit chirpings!

I was asked this question today..."Why would a family member on the other side give "general " information in a reading about their loved ones, their lives, their crossing?  Well, they do use our life information as data to get our attention.  Humans are by nature selfish and the other side knows, there is no one that we humans like to hear about more than ourselves.  That is a blanket, yet, totally true statement.  

The other side to that statement is that after a while, the other side quits playing the reading game and will begin to deliver what I call non emotional information.  There is not emotion to the information because the person going back over and over again for the reading does not have a real emotional stake in the reading or information.  

Do our family members have better things to do on the other side than talk to us at our whim...YES.  However, if you are grieving and in true pain over the loss of a family member, then I think they do everything to help us heal.  That is until,  we either start abusing the connection, ie...repetitive readings, or we lose our emotional attachment.  

Mediumship or other types of readings are not meant to simply entertain us, they are meant to help us when we need it the most to find our direction.  Wanting constant information from the other side and needing healing are as far away from each other as Baptist and psychics.  

There is no negative emotion on the other side.  Yet, the other side are our teachers and they can be quite callous...they know when enough is enough and you can't fool them -  they always know a person's true intentions.  

Pink suits of armor...

Nobody remembers the cowardly  knight.  

Nope!  

They remember the mighty knight that slew the dragon and saved the day!

It may only take ONE act of bravery to turn your story into a fairy tale, too. 

Girly ideas.

For many years I have used the nickname, "Psychik."  Those who know me, know, I do not take myself or life too seriously.  I enjoy using "Psychik" to identify myself to bring out both obvious aspects of myself.  First and foremost, I am a total girly girl and two,  I have claimed a powerful part of my soul, my intuition, and had the complete audacity to actually use it to identify myself as a person.  

Being a woman and intuitive are who I am, there is no turning away or use in trying to not "be" either one.  My reasoning, I might as well be both to the best of my abilities.  I throw tea parties, for no reason.  My nails and toes are always painted.  My garden screams, "A woman lives here who loves flowers!"  And, it is not a tidy garden either, I like to let nature be nature.  Sometimes, as in life, the garden is not always ruly or attractive.  I purposefully let one part of my garden stay wild.  It reminds me that life needs to ramble and that I should garden and live along with God, not without him.  Who am I to yank up every seedling out of my beds, they might be someone else's  great idea, just not mine.  

I have a beautiful Virginia Winter Creeper rambling it's way across my back patio.  I love it.  It makes me feel like I am living in another time, in a secret garden space full of magic...and it sprouted all on it's own.  Who knew?  One little weedy vine would bring me such joy.  Last week, I overheard a development crew next door warning each other "not to touch that poison oak growing up those trees..."  I smiled to myself, as I followed their pointed gloved fingers to another Virginia Winter Creeper Vine. 

My psychic side is connected to my feminine aspect as well.  Not forgetting intuition is also our connection back to God.  Many years ago I received the message from Spirit that we were all, as souls, over many lifetimes,  moving towards opening up that most feminine side of us.  That part of us of quiet power.  

Without regards to whether we lived our human lives as a man or woman, we were on a soul's journey to find our ultimate femininity.  This concept makes some - usually men, very uncomfortable.  Spirit was not saying feminine energy was better, but they did most definitely say the feminine, was what we as souls were moving towards claiming.  No person can argue, woman have been repressed, humiliated, controlled and discounted for far too long.

God created man and woman.  He gave woman a tool of creation.  We women come here with an actual tool, designed to create.  I have told many a client, "You came here with a uterus.  God recognized that you were an excellent creator in all aspects of your soul.  He doesn't give those out to just anybody!"  It is a bit ostentatious of man to then alter the manner in which God meant for woman to be.  Just like in my garden...God has his own ideas about our reality.  

  

My theory is then this:  If as a group we have repressed the embodiment of our soul which exhibits our raw feminine nature.  The very nature of our soul that, per spirit, we are all motivated into reclaiming, then no wonder our spiritual journey has been so difficult...We are denying it on a conscious level by allowing the living women of our planet to continue to be repressed.  

Interesting.

Free our women.  Free our souls.  Remember our true nature.  Live in a garden of joy with God.

Go ahead. Ride the milky way -

Here is a thought to consider - 

Have the audacity and courage to ask for the WHOLE galaxy. 

By default, you will at least get the moon and stars!

Let your soul go and swing from the stars.  Then, you will truly shine on!

PSL Friday

PSL tip for friday: 

The next time someone acts so far out of character your first reaction is to drop your jaw...before you say anything in response...Stop yourself from reacting to their most likely negative action, and find the humor in the situation.  There is always humor in every situation.  It may be strange humor - but it is there.  

Do not give them the response they are looking for ...shock them with humor.  The levity will immediately redirect and diffuse their energy and you will take control of the situation.  You will be showing them your master.  

A master knows that we are all learning, and even those jaw dropping moments are just moments, not forever.  So, the next time someone drops the bomb on you, find something to laugh about...don't laugh at them ....just the situation! 

Those famous webs...

Great happenings in life do not occur in the heavy workings of our day, but within the fine threads of reality,   

It is the many tiny, synchronizations of our day which spin together to create those amazing moments that change our world. 

Pay Attention.