Spirit chirpings!

I was asked this question today..."Why would a family member on the other side give "general " information in a reading about their loved ones, their lives, their crossing?  Well, they do use our life information as data to get our attention.  Humans are by nature selfish and the other side knows, there is no one that we humans like to hear about more than ourselves.  That is a blanket, yet, totally true statement.  

The other side to that statement is that after a while, the other side quits playing the reading game and will begin to deliver what I call non emotional information.  There is not emotion to the information because the person going back over and over again for the reading does not have a real emotional stake in the reading or information.  

Do our family members have better things to do on the other side than talk to us at our whim...YES.  However, if you are grieving and in true pain over the loss of a family member, then I think they do everything to help us heal.  That is until,  we either start abusing the connection, ie...repetitive readings, or we lose our emotional attachment.  

Mediumship or other types of readings are not meant to simply entertain us, they are meant to help us when we need it the most to find our direction.  Wanting constant information from the other side and needing healing are as far away from each other as Baptist and psychics.  

There is no negative emotion on the other side.  Yet, the other side are our teachers and they can be quite callous...they know when enough is enough and you can't fool them -  they always know a person's true intentions.