Thursday, February 5, 2009

My life is falling apart - what do I do now?

These days I have to answer such tough questions....Am I gonna lose my job?  Are we gonna lose our house?  Is my marriage going to end?  

This is the norm in sessions, and it breaks my heart.  If you find yourself in one, two or all three of these situations, you are not alone.  You are not alone, because your angels are feverishly working around you, to set up better situations for you to replace the ones that have fallen away.  The only reason life situations dissolve are so that better, healthier ones have room to come in to our lives. 

If your job sucks, (and some of you work in hellish places) do not purposefully do anything to change it...No matter how bad it is, I just cannot bring myself to tell anyone to leave a paying job.  If however, your job status changes without your help, you get laid off, the company closes, etc...then obviously the angels are going to assist you into a better place, for you.  

This does not mean if you had a Sales Manager position, your angel's are going to find them a another Sales Manager position.  Why?  Because that might have been the worst place for your soul, and perhaps, they know you would be truly happy working at a hospital gift shop.  The truth is, this shift is forcing us all to look beyond where we "think" we "should" be according to society standards into where are hearts are truly, honestly happy.  

There are many people being forced out of those high dollar mortgages into smaller more manageable rent homes and apartments.  Maybe, if those people don't have to struggle so hard to pay those hefty house payments, they could really spend time playing with their kids, maybe go back for their degree....follow their real dreams....not the Jones'.

Have you ever heard of a treatable psychological syndrome caused by living in a rent home or  apartment?  No.  As long as there are loving parent's and happiness, kids adjust. There is no shame in not having a huge home.  Truth be told, we all adjust.  Look at foreign countries, there are many countries where living in flats, apartments or close knit communities is the norm, not exception.  

One might argue our perception of what life should look like, and what we truly desire are being balanced with this shift.  This planet is always in perpetual states of balance.  Which leads me to relationships.  If your's is ending,  there is a high likelihood it needed to change years ago.  Many people hang onto decaying relationships with death grips for what?  To continue to be miserable?  It is what we human's do when we are afraid of change.  Never under estimate our ability to put up with misery at all cost to our self esteem, self worth, happiness, health, etc...

My advice to you in this situation, let go.  Trust your angels.  They will guide you and your significant other to find happiness and health in another relationship.  There is no need to hang on for dear life and there is probably nothing you can do to change the outcome at this point.

If you are in a otherwise good relationship, but are feeling the pressure of the change, I recommend reading the cleanse I have already listed below, at bedtime each night.  This will cleanse your space of any wayward negative stuff, and help you and your loved ones to see situations more clearly.  You might just be stressed and that is why you feel so frustrated.  Whatever you do, do not turn on each other, life is difficult enough.  Do a cleanse, take a bubble bath, make a sweet treat for each other, pamper yourself in little ways, and just breathe.  
Do not ask..."What else can go wrong?"  This is a terrible idea and an invitation to fate.  Just breathe instead, and know we are all going to come out in better situations when the energy and dust settle around us.  

Breathe...and chant "We are lucky people, and choose Joy."  

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